Kissing toads and other hazards of dating
With that in mind, opening up and getting to know someone does take a certain amount of patience.
Assess each new partner as an individual, and stay keenly connected with how you experience yourself while in his or her presence.
If you follow this dating strategy, hold back and play hard to get, it is a game, not an opportunity to connect and develop a relationship. You may even get very good at winning the game, but, in doing so, you may lose the chance to allow love to evolve.
As women, we read the tales of how the princess kisses the frog and it turns in to a prince.
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Many of them don’t turn into princes, so how do we rid ourselves of the frogs without squishing them?
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Women who want love and family tend to start wondering how they will fit it all in, while still killin' it in their careers.
With a few mindset changes, it's possible to have it all (even if it's not all at once)—but this starts with tweaking your approach to dating and relationships.
But because playing a game necessarily translates into masking your authentic self, these rules cannot deliver the kind of genuine partnership on which true love is built.